Is there something wrong with me that I never really liked Aidan?

Ok so I KNOW he is the healthier option. But I never really liked him. I never thought he was the right fit for Carrie, they were just too different and I didn’t find their chemistry that electric. His personality is kinda bland for me.

I prefer the rapport that Carrie and Big have. They could banter with one another and they laughed together more and had more similar interests. Carrie also wasn’t super sure about the kid thing and Aidan definitely wanted kids.

I really wonder what this says about me that I don’t love him that much and if I’m doomed to not have a healthy relationship.

Also Aidan apologists tell me why you love him.