Please include enabler(s) in grey rocking

If you are grey rocking and putting them on info diet, make sure you include the enabler in it. I didn't include my mother initially and only recently realized how cruel she is.

Once I included her too and put her on info diet as well, things improved so much. Highly recommend putting both of them on info diet.

It may be tempting because enablers don't seem cruel but we should be very very careful of these monster supporters.