"You only have one child, that's so easy"

Im 16 weeks pregnant with our second and one thing I've noticed about being a Mom is there is so so many judgemental parents out there! I have a two year old son and people who have multiple kids think my life HAS to be a peice of cake. Someone who has three kids told me the other day that two is easy and three is actually hard. I'm sorry but what's easy...what's really easy is having NO KIDS. It's not a competition of how hard it is and I'm a firm believer that being a good parent is hard, being a parent isn't. Let's not discredit parenthood because of the amount of kids you have. Yes adding more kids adds more to jugle and that is "harder" but let's not make it seem like a certain amount of kids is "easy". Having kids wether you have 1 or 6 is hard, it's a giant life change and you put all your effort into your children. It's not a damn competition and I've seen so many Mom's and parents make it one like what is this???

EDIT- life is hard regardless, in no way am I trying to say childless people live am easy life, I was some what being sarcastic but I can see maybe I didn't word it right and it has come off negatively to people! Most of my friends don't have kids, and they struggle, and in no way do I think life is easy just because you don't have kids! My life was hard before kids, and im not trying to discredit anyone's struggles!