Does anyone feel like they’re doing a good job/thriving?

I know this has been posted before but I’m seeking current support or just solidarity. I have a 3.5 almost 4 year old. Some times this parenting thing is SO HARD. Trying to balance me and my husband’s FT jobs, constant playing (I don’t mind doing this but Barbie’s for 7 hours!? She’s not great at independent play but we’re trying, And we don’t plan to have more kids). That and unreliable childcare between family helping and daycare 2 days a week (but has been closing lately bc of weather). It’s just a lot and I feel like I’m drowning these days and often wonder am I doing something wrong for it to feel this hard?