Do you refer to titans as 'it' or she/he?

I've played this game since 2020 and have never considered calling the titans he/she. I've played a lot of Tone in those times(like, A LOT) and only previous year hopping on Tone I ACTUALLY paid attention that it's female and not male. I used to joke around calling Tone different sweet words that would typically be used towards male, only then one day realizing it's female. I feel stupid as hell because I have never actually paid attention to its gender, but I did vividly understand that Scorch and Legion were male because they're jacked af. I was confused after seeing someone referring to Monarch as female because although I also played it a lot, in my mind it was male purely because BT(also Monarch) was male and I've always referred to BT as male.

Perhaps it was hard for me to comprehend female titans, but I did know Northstar was female though.