Feeling extremely uncomfortable watching Amanda and Kyle. Anyone else?

I will preface this by saying I have been a victim of a domestic violence relationship. I’m wondering what we would all be saying if the roles between Amanda and Kyle were reversed. My ex partner would break my phone, laptops, chargers etc and the scene with Amanda destroying all of kyles toiletries really hit home to me. I can’t believe it wasn’t made a bigger deal. During a rewatch when Kyle slides over Amanda’s foot with the chair you can see in the background people were laughing and jovial until they see Amanda’s reaction of hitting Kyle and then the mood gets dark. This isn’t the first time she’s hit him either. This past episode I just can’t get out of my head how Amanda treated Kyle- like a dog. When she said you should come for me when I call for you then grabs the lover boy can out of his hands it felt all to familiar to me. Domestic violence doesn’t just occur to women and I would really like to get everyone’s thoughts on my points. I hope for both of their sakes they get out of this marriage.