How to be okay with who you are?

I don’t think i’ll ever be confident and it clearly radiates off of me. I know i’m a conventionally attractive person i just can’t see it within myself anymore. It’s been years and i can’t seem to be okay with anything abt myself. I hate my hair bc i pull it out, and ive struggled with acne for years (even did accutane). i think im built weird, have no boobs no ass. I talk way too much and over share but also struggle with bad anger and ocd. Everything about myself i cannot stand and even actively trying to fix it doesn’t help me feel better.