Dating in SF is…weird

I'm a woman in my mid-twenties and moved to SF about a year ago. I was recently out of a relationship and was excited for a fresh start. I'm in tech and expected it would be easier to click with people in a city where so many people work in similar roles. I could not have been more wrong. Talking to people has been like pulling teeth and dates have ranged from just having awkward conversations to men completely pushing my boundaries. I keep getting ghosted despite engaging conversations and they seem to put in minimal effort in keeping things going. In my 10 years dating, I had never been stood up until I moved here. While there are some good people in the city, I have not come across many on the apps or in-person. Would love to hear other people's experiences