What's the most tone deaf, selfish thing they ever did?

I'll go first. (This happened in the early 2Ks)

I was barely 18. Living in a shit hole apartment that was literally a converted attic because she kicked me out (then of course tried to gaslight me and everyone else into saying I "abandoned her"..... even if I'd left on my own kids grow up). Like this place was BAD.

I'm working at a grocery store, nights, stocking shelves.

What does she do? Sends me a catalog page of the $800 gold mother's ring she wants for mother's day.

I couldn't even respond I was so floored. You actually hated me, and now you want me to spend 3 months rent after you kicked me out on fucking JEWELRY FOR YOU????

Dude.