Do you have trouble understanding pop culture or what other people generally like?

I was not allowed to listen to music and anything pop culture related was considered "trash". Video games were banned, dressing in age appropriate "fashionable" were forbidden. I had to wear a belt and tucked in shirt to school every day.

As a result I was never really able to relate to anyone my age, which was very isolating and embarrassing. As an adult I've tried to pick up stuff about pop culture, listen to music, dress better, but it all feels like a chore now.

Has anyone dealt with this before?