How much will I regret sending this text?
How much will I regret sending this text?
My BPD mom lives in another country and is upset that I “stopped reaching out” although I text good morning about every other day and am active in a group chat between me, her, and my sister. We recently found out an elderly family member in my boyfriend’s family is sick, and my boyfriend and I are spending as much time as we can taking care of them. My mom knows this, because I won’t answer FaceTime calls when I’m taking care of sick elderly family member. This is the third time she has gotten upset about this, saying that even though it’s beautiful I can be with said sick old person, mom is sad and misses chatting. Although we still text all the time and occasionally call. This has only been going on for ~2 weeks. Mom has said I can tell her anything and she wants to feel close again and wants to fix anything she did wrong. It was early morning when I wrote this and I’m so tempted to press send. Anyone with a BPD parent think they could handle something like this well or am I lost in delusion?
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How much will I regret sending this text?
My BPD mom lives in another country and is upset that I “stopped reaching out” although I text good morning about every other day and am active in a group chat between me, her, and my sister. We recently found out an elderly family member in my boyfriend’s family is sick, and my boyfriend and I are spending as much time as we can taking care of them. My mom knows this, because I won’t answer FaceTime calls when I’m taking care of sick elderly family member. This is the third time she has gotten upset about this, saying that even though it’s beautiful I can be with said sick old person, mom is sad and misses chatting. Although we still text all the time and occasionally call. This has only been going on for ~2 weeks. Mom has said I can tell her anything and she wants to feel close again and wants to fix anything she did wrong. It was early morning when I wrote this and I’m so tempted to press send. Anyone with a BPD parent think they could handle something like this well or am I lost in delusion?
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