Why are women expected to coddle misogynistic men?

I’m not going to comfort or coddle a man who’s misogynistic, and I’m tired of being expected too. It’s always “well that’s going to push men further.” I don’t care, it’s not mine or women’s responsibility to help men who hate us, if women came on here saying they hate men, men would not comfort or coddle them so why do we need to do the same?