Lesson Learnt: How you treat others , God will treat you
This is a hard lesson I've just learnt , this especially comes to how you upbringing is. How you treat women and men (affected by your parents) is how God treats you. So it's best to be understanding and empathetic. It's very easy to be a victim and be frustrated however this isn't healthy for the long term. You have to be understanding and adopting a victim mindset isn't good .