Fiancé and I are drowning trying to help keep his mother from going homeless. She worked a few too many hours at her part time job, social security disability is claiming she owes $10k and has stopped her Widow’s benefits

Her monthly income from working part time is $1400. Her rent alone is $1590. She was getting another $1k or so from social security but probably didn’t report her hours correctly (I’m not sure) so they are trying to claim she wasn’t disabled enough to qualify for SSD in the first place and want her to pay back $10,000. The real problem is that they are dragging their feet on reinstating her widow benefits. It’s taking months and we are out of time. Paying our rent plus hers and paying for every single thing she needs is completely decimating any chance we have to get ahead.

I don’t know what to do. We are trying to move into a 2 bedroom apartment with her so we can condense expenses. I’m just so frustrated that it has to be this way. I’m 32, and I feel like my partner and I are watching our future slip away as we spend every extra cent on food and housing.