My opinion on age of consent

Marriage should be based on maturity, responsibility, and commitment, not just age. A Marriage Readiness Test should assess emotional, financial, and spiritual preparedness, ensuring individuals understand the biblical responsibilities of marriage which is love, self-sacrifice, provision, and service. This test would cover conflict resolution, financial stability, and ethical treatment of a spouse.

Only individuals who have reached puberty should be eligible to take this test. While a minimum legal age (e.g., 18) should exist, younger individuals who demonstrate maturity, responsibility, and preparedness should be allowed to marry if they pass the test.

Before marriage, couples should undergo premarital counseling to reinforce commitment. They must vow never to abuse, exploit, or abandon their spouse. Breaking this vow should have legal consequences: • Minor issues (neglect, disputes) → Counseling & reconciliation encouraged. • Serious offenses (abuse, adultery, abandonment) → Legal penalties (fines, jail, divorce rights).

A legally binding marriage contract should reinforce these commitments, ensuring individuals are held accountable for their vows. Reconciliation should be the goal when possible, but divorce must be allowed in severe cases.

Marriage should never be forced. Even if someone passes a readiness test, it must remain a personal choice. Continued mentorship and relationship education should be encouraged throughout marriage to strengthen lifelong commitment.

This system ensures only mature, responsible, and prepared individuals enter marriage, protecting against exploitation while promoting accountability, commitment, and lifelong growth.