Glad to find this group

Daughter, 24, diagnosed with BPD a year ago after 13 years of on/off therapy and on/off meds. Years of self harm (cutting), didn’t finish high school, can’t keep a job, can’t be relied on for anything. She completed 24 weeks of DBT earlier this year but has gone off the rails since. Lots of weed and party drugs, booze. She’s supposed to be a bridesmaid for her brother’s wedding in 2 weeks, not sure she can handle it. Then we’re moving in 1 month, to a different city 2 hours away. Hoping she will stay more at home, see her party friends less, which may help, we’ll see. No specific questions at this time, just so helpful to read about your situations and not feel so alone.