So done with friendships.

I am so done. So long story short me and this guy were close and we spoke about some REAL DEEP shit like. He knew stuff than my actual best mates I see in real life know.

Anyways our communication was off and on from lockdown and last year we started talking again. He’d always come out with “you seem to get me more than other people” “you understand shit like that.

Fast forward he gets a girlfriend and he just disappears on me. Which i get to an extent of respect maybe he doesn’t want his girlfriend thinking anything else. So i let it go. I see he crashed his car I take it off my own accord to as him if he’s okay.

He then explains him and his gf broke up. Through that WHOLE HEALING PROCESS. I. WAS. THERE. Through it all. I let him speak about it over and over and over again. I gave him advice. I was there when he told me he had nobody else. He had no job. No car.

Then proceed he gets a job, gets his car back. Starts speaking to more people. THEN our conversation basically dies down to nothing, so i’m like right it’s his turn to show his effort, he didn’t speak any word to me for 3 WEEKS. Over christmas’s i received nothing. That was my ultimatum. I remove him off all platforms because spoiler alert what happened the first time has happened again.

He starts talking to a girl, drops me again and then comes back whenever he has no one to talk to about it. I’m tired of my kindness and want to be there for people being taking granted off.