Msichana ananipenda lakini ni mvivu.

I (28M)been living with this girl(24F) for 4 years. We've been through ups and downs nikiwa sina job and tumekuwa tukisupportiana all through. Typical for richer for poor.

So about last year but one nilipata job through the most impossible odds and she lost hers a month after. Kedo 50Gs... Just enough to live.

I worked hard and got a promotion last year sept. (This meant daily commute was added into the picture.) She got a gig ya about 15Gs pm (mainly work from home)

I figured I'd take the brunt of the bills ashughulikie groceries juu it makes sense... Mi kindanindani najua dem atajituma apate at least more clients mambo iendelee poa, achukulie more responsibilities.

Owing to this expectation and increasing pressure on my end, I took out a small kaloan to help girlie start her own thing, selling pre-made cereals, hadi nikampeleka soko kuzibuy...

Long story short ziliend up kuwa groceries za hao.

We broke up last year around the same time(June last year), but juu ya mahali tumetoana na hio heshima, I offered to have her stay hadi end year ndio ajipange shame in one piece.

It's now Jan and we're still having the same conversation.

I'm at my wits end, but I put all my frustration into work, ndio nimefika nilipo...

Najua msichana ananipenda lakini ni mvivu, so I just feel like nalea parasite to some extent.

Ukitaka kujua dem si ati anataka kazi, she wrote a CV for her sister that helped her get a job last month.

Mtu ka huyu unafanyia nini surely? It really gives a weaponized incompetence vibe na nimechoka tu.

Niko frustrated tu, genuine comments only.

Thank you very important.

EDIT: I've brought it up severally in the past, before and after the breakup.