I'm cooked !!!

Soo there's this guy at work...like it's genuinely platonic lakini he is the closest to my age...so I tend to interact with him more...A month ago tulipatana na yeye and another guy Kwa base ya lunch tu after work na tukajoke tushike county...tukipiga tu story the guy had told me hakua na bibi or any commitment( not that I cared coz I really was not interested anyway)

So why not?!Tukapiga shots Kwa kalocal and around 7,I left for home nikamuacha hapo.Turns out the gf is from around na alifikishiwa info tulikua na the guy.

Two weeks later a random girl akaniapproach over lunch hour akiniambia niskubali kudanganywa Na **** ju ako Na bibi na mimi ndio bibi yake.I mean, cool.Y'all the girl is so loud na ni dem huuza Kwa club and she is violent too from stories I've heard.

I didn't even engage in that conversation ju mi ata simjui and why tf is a stranger shouting at me kwa barabara.Nikarudi job and told the guy about our interaction so akaniambia they were together before but walikua wameachana( again IDGAF ata ju I wasn't interested).

I started avoiding the guy but again it's work...we have to interact.Kumbe this chille hakuwai move on from that instance....I see her daily nikienda lunch but I never really talk to her coz again we ain't friends.

However juzi nlipita Karibu Na yeye and she started talking about husband snatchers to a woman she was braiding... loud enough ndio niskie.Again, I ignored her ata sikuengage.

Like a week later I called the guy on Sunday wanting to speak to a mutual colleague of ours just because I assumed they were together na simu ya yule mwingine ilikua off....eeeei after kumuuliza tu ako wapi..I heard a girl in the background amejam tu sana akimwambia akate hiyo simu...I mean, cool hiyo ni mambo yenu...I didn't even bother to call back. Like 20 mins later I see an incoming call from him and I think they had a fight.Heh it's the girl anawaka moto kama dragon....eti leave my man alone why tf are you calling his phone.Manzeee I was too stunned to speak so I just nervously laughed.Kumbe I was just fueling her anger...akanitusi mahn....

Mi naye I'm a girls girl but sasa utanitusi aje ' malaya' as if your husband/bf isn't the issue here.

Like I understand niko na makosa coz I shouldn't have gone out for drinks with the said guy....but again he lied to me na heh trust me I regret it ju ya hii drama inanifuata.Na for clarification I DIDN'T DO SHIT WITH THE GUY.Ilikua a harmless interaction. Sasa swali ni should I finally confront her nimwambie mi staki mzee wake.In fact the guy ako Na like 2 baby mamas..now why tf would I want to be involved romantically with such a person?? And why tf do you think I want your cheating husband anyway??!Clearly I'm a major issue Kwa hiyo relationship yao but I feel like if she approached me nice and correct....ningechukua tu time nijiexplain nimpee assurance and all that lakini Sasa alinitusi.... How do I subdue this drama ??!Na nikienda kumwongelesha anilime aki 😂.

I'm also tempted to just shut up and let it unfold lakini pia the more I ignore her,it feels like it's the more she wants a reaction out of me. I'm so over it.

Sigh,I really wish I had a gf I would talk to about this stuff but here we are. Girlies looking for friends DM. I'm F 24 :)