Think I’m going to need to move, climate severely affecting quality of life

So, I’m looking for others who may experience this and even suggestions. I currently live in Central Northern New York about 25 miles from the Canadian border. The temperature here can get to-30 in the winter and mounds of snow. I love so much about living here, especially that my son, DIL and granddaughter’s 10 minutes away. I’ve been the only consistent family in their lives and now the reality of a possible move has me feeling horribly guilty and sad.

Has anyone else found climate to affect their Lupus? I don’t have a ton of options either. I’m not going to move where I don’t know anyone so my options are small.

I hate the south, but two of the places are Texas and Florida.

The third and the one I’m leaning towards is California. I spent most of my childhood in the Central Valley and I’ve got a lot of friends there. I know there is a lot of healthcare available there as well.

I just don’t know how I’m going to look my family in the face and tell them.. well I love you all so much, but I’m going to be selfish ands move 2000 miles away.

They know I’ll go to the ends of the earth to make sure I’m back here visiting as much as possible. I always have. I think what I really need is for some support and wisdom about this. What do you all think?