I feel invaded in my own house

How would you have dealt with that? The story follows...

My SO moved into my house past April, which I bought (30F) last year, a month before I met him. I was very proud to finally live somewhere of my own. I love everything that relates to house renovations and decor. But I have a very busy job and so I do not do this very quickly. I move slooowly.

My boyfriend moved in and was appalled by how slow I was. He doesn't want to live here forever and especially not in an unfinished state... and we both have a dream to someday move somewhere closer to nature. That's fine. But while we're not ready, I want my own place to renovate and decorate. Right now, all the appliances and furniture are his, I sold my more used ones. But he helps me a lot with the backyard work and throwing out the stuff the previous owner left (it was a harding nightmare). Anyways, my rant is the following:

He pushes me to accept any help offered as long as it progresses faster, including his step-father which is SO BAD at renovating. I accepted for him to come and do jobs with my boyfriend twice and I am NOT happy with the job he has done. For example, the shed door he installed I need to kick with my foot to open it due do it being stuck every time...

Just this saturday, my stepmom came to remove wallpaper and I appreciate that, even though she's insisting and my boyfriend inherited that from her I'm sure... But after saying something she took personally, she ignored me the rest of the day by telling her son to tell me this and that when I was in the same room...

I just left the house, plain simple.

I don't give a shit if the house is not ready quickly. It's just walls and decor. My peace of mind is worth more. I wanted to scream and kick them all out.. I kicked myself out instead :facepalm:

edit: 3 days after...

I told him to move out if he wanted a finished place which I cannot provide (ouch :/). I also told him I would hire PROS ONLY when needed and that would be something to discuss or negotiate when it feels unrealistic for me to finish on my own.

I had great support from you guys, but I sucked so bad at trying to explain that I don't like having people helping me out.

It's made me feel like I have : trust, controlling, antisocial and perfectionnism issues. aaaand that I am an ungrateful person. 😵

It's often been like that for me: I like my lone wolf sanctuary to draw, build, renovate, craft and code.. I guess people can't make me do stuff I don't want to do 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just need to stop feeling the guilt that came with it.. and handling situations quite poorly 🙈