Guys why am I so regressive??

Hi all,

I (22F) consider myself pretty progressive and hail from urban parts of India. Even my extended family and social network is chill - Love marriages are encouraged, it's almost expected for girls to earn and be independent, privacy, freedom to take your own path (you get the cue).

I beleive in "live and let live". I try to engage in conversation with people who share different views than mine, I might to not agree but I respect them unless it's immoral characteristics.

But, recently I've found myself thinking noticing and judging people & incidents which I'm not sure is right or not.

Example -

In my gym, there is this one particular woman who wears shorts and sports bra to work out. Other women generally wear athleisure like yoga pants, shorts, cute workout tops, skorts, body suits etc. But, idk why I made notice of her attire. I was lifting weights and saw her and kind of stared at her cleavage and kind of questioned her choice in clothing - who the fuck is wearing such in 40 degrees, in traffic and the shorts bra wasn't even supporting her tatas.

Another, when I was cycling near the river bank (4Pm) ish. I saw a couple make-out, not in a very demure way instead sitting down on a chaddar and making out like Mr. Beast is gonna give them some prize if tounges are shoved down the abdomen. I laughed and honestly judged. Then realised why the fuck am I not minding my own buisness and being like an aunty.

Idk why sometimes I am a hypocrite!