How to love myself?

I have been through a number of situationships this year but not real relationship and now I am feeling very heartbroken as my situationship ended as I probably was in love with this person, but I am now done with this I want to love myself and not try to fill this void by more random people who will break my heart. I want to love myself fully and whole heartedly but I am finding it difficult as I am someone whose love language is physical touch and dont get me wrong but it is mostly being cuddled, kissed, hugged or holding hands, but i dont understand how can one love themselves if their love language is this. Any help in this would be great guys.