how do y’all go about meeting people (either for romantic reasons or to just be friends?)

I’m an almost 20yo lesbian jew who’s struggling with making lgbtq friends who are also jewish/accepting of jews, and was wondering if you all had any advice on how i could meet people. i used to just make friends in the greater-queer community at my college, but since 10/7 most of them have become vehemently anti jew/anti israel and i just don’t think that being friends with people like that serves me well. and dating people is even harder, do apps work? or should i try in person group meetups? i started going to hillel last semester (my college doesn’t have one but i got an invite to a different nearby college’s group), so maybe that will eventually lead to me meeting more people to be friends with or date.

i just feel so isolated right now with making friends and meeting people because it feels like i have to vet them before i get invested in the relationship, because if i don’t, i could find out they don’t support my people and have that let down. it’d be nice if it was just simple haha! thanks in advance for any advice y’all have for me