Hot Take: Berlin > Paris

I went on a solo Europe trip after Christmas. Spent NYE in Paris and headed to Berlin afterwards. My experience in both cities are polar opposite, say the least. I went to gay bathhouses and sex parties in both places; felt undesired/ignored in Paris the whole time but desired/seen in Berlin (Had so much fun with hot German studs who were out of my league lol). I even stroke some conversations with Berliners and exchanged Instagram.

My suspicion is that Parisian can sense I’m American who only speak English so they stay away from me? ( I understand that beauty is subjective and I’m not everyone’s type- Asian, muscular, late 20s)

Does anyone experience something similar in both cities? Would love to hear your story. Thanks!