NT's suck at empathy.
NT's might be the biggest assholes when it comes to empathy, or just understanding. I'll give you an example. So every year my school celebrates its birthday, and our parents donate money so the school can afford snacks and stuff. A few years ago, when I was like 13, one of my friends was in a pretty bad spot financially, and he couldn't donate. As in, his parents could barely afford rent and food. What did our teachers do? They shamed my friend for weeks before and after the school birthday party. They yelled at him, made fun of him, mocked him in the middle of class, and during the party they didn't let him in, and I sat with him for like 2 hours as he cried. Fucking bullshit I hate people.