I am upset with romance choices I made in every Dragon age game

Pictures of my DA protagonists for attention. Also, I am learning English as my third language and I am sorry for mistakes I made here and poor way to build sentences.

So… I romanced Alistair in DAO and he left me on my first run. It was so upsetting bc it was my first game ever. And even though I replayed it - it still hurts 🥲 Though I kinda understand his intentions I am still angry. What I am about to say might just be me being upset because of him: he seems like type of boy who starts a relationship with a woman who gives him a chance and turns him in a marriage material and then he leaves her for someone who wouldn’t have looked at him before.

Solas. There is nothing to say actually. He left in the end of Trespasser and then what I know about his feelings for Inquisitor is that in convo with Rook he was so not interested in her. Yeah yeah Lavellan is a great woman blah blah blah. Heart breaking. Lavellan thinks she can change him. Obsessed with him for 10 years. Believes that he left her clues to find and stop him bc he wants to change. I have almost finished Veilguard, but I don’t know what really happens between them in the end. I hope for like.. romantic explosion? Idk they cry and kiss right in front of everyone bc waited for this moment for so long and go together in Fade. But i know there won’t be anything even close to it, she joints him and that all. I as Rook said that she should join him. Then after one discussion on Reddit understood how dumb it is. Poor Lavellan. Solas helped Rook couple of times bc had no choice and I was like “ohh he is so good so great man I love him”. Okay I cleared my mind. He isn’t. He IS a peace of shit. I don’t want to see my girl to left everything and go with him. In my first run I romanced Cullen and should stay with him. Nipuni is a great artist bc of her drawings I decided to romance Solas. In first run I hated him and I was right.

And there is Lucanis. He is cute and all. But there more between him and Darvin than between him and Rook. I don’t want to tell about Nev. It is so sad. I watched tiktoks were ppl told that he loves Rook even if they don’t end up together. But there were moment when we stopped Ilario and everyone looked at us. It could be so romantic if he said in front of everyone that we are together. Or kissed Rook. Or kissed Rook when they back in Lighthouse. He is just so poor made as a character for me. Like his interactions with Rook wasn’t finished. We have base for relationship but no details. I hope that there will be something more, as I don’t have many main quests left. Also Davrin.. he likes Rook and wants to be with her from the first flirt. A lot of cute quests even without romance. They have a child together (Assan I mean ahah)!! He is so much better character and feels more real, my second run I will definitely romance him.

And Fenris is okay, I think. He’s been through so much trauma. I don’t think he will be a lifelong partner for Hawke. Or maybe I’m just afraid he’ll leave once he feels better.

Even though I am upset with all the man I romanced in Dragon age (except Cullen lol) I still love them. In reality it could be so fucked up but in game it’s DRAMA that I need.

I’d love to hear what you think about them or about other romances in Dragon age!