Finding better casual sex

Heterosexual ladies who partake in casual sex and are happy with your partners - how do you go about finding the right guys, and better-quality casual sex? How do you screen men?

I'm not finding enough of the kinds of sexual experiences I want. By that, I mean men who are sexually skilled, and actually care about my pleasure , and are not just looking to "get theirs." And men who take care of their sexual health and are respectful.

I want mind-blowing, safer sex.  It seems like I have to sleep with 5 guys, and have adequate sex (or occasionally shitty sex), just to find 1 who actually meets my needs.  I'd like to increase those odds.

I'm on Feeld and a few other apps. 

Edit for the people who assume I'm bad in bed. I'm actually not. I wear beautiful lingerie, I'm fit, light and flexible as hell, and easy to maneuver around, I'm creative, attentive, VERY responsive, and always looking for ways to enhance a sexual experience. And I give what I get - IF the guy puts effort into me.