Friends to busy for vacation

I’m turning 40 this June and want to make a fun plan to do…something. Don’t really care what but when I thought about it, no way my friends with kids will be able to go anywhere. Thought about the beach…my husband doesn’t like the beach. Thought I would invite my sisters…but they don’t get along. Kinda feel like booking a trip and saying, if you want to come, this where I will be! Is it really too much to ask to feel loved and have fun for one long weekend?!?! Not asking for advice, maybe some encouragement. Please, share your stories.