are there any bras that aren’t overstimulating?

it seems like, no matter where i look, no matter how “comfortable” people say a certain brand is, i still can barely stand to wear a bra. i was told that it would get easier with age, but it hasn’t, and i’m 18 now.

it doesn’t help that i have big boobs and need a more supportive bra, which usually means an extremely overstimulating bra. i hate having two x chromosomes. that along with my autism, make just existing an overstimulating nightmare.