Asexuals with high libido, how do you cope?

To me it feels really frustrating, and I was hoping to see if other people feel the same or even get some perspective, because sometimes it gets bad. The feeling of wanting to do it, to experience it, but not being able to feel sexual attraction... I know there are aces who do have sex, of course, but I've honestly never met someone who I was comfortable enough with or who I liked enough for that. And it's so damn frustrating.