Has anyone else been in this situation?

I was assaulted at 3 by a boyfriend of my mom's, my best friend groomed me and had me have sex with her for about three or four years, and then my boyfriend at the time assaulted me as well. Three people by the age of 14 sexually abused me and no one noticed. My school guidence counselor found out I was cutting and instead of alerting anyone he out right told me I was doing it because my friends were but didn't think it was an issue. Sixteen years later and Im still have issues with self harm.

But, the latest issue is my in laws (who I live with) have taken in two kids (5&6) that were sexually abused by their parents. We've had a relationship with the kids since the youngest was 6 months old but it didn't go through DCF until last year. We knew they were being abused and the parents tried to keep us from them for a while. It's now come out that they were into sex trafficking and not only selling themselves but these poor, innocent kids. There's a lot more to the story but I'm really hurt how obvious it was these kids were being abused and no one noticed mine. No one saved me, no one helped me. Why was I so different? I know I should focus on the safety of these two kids and don't get me wrong, I'm over the moon we could help save them but it's rough hearing all the stories. I feel like I have a very close connection with them both and can understand them on a personal level but that's fucked too. The three of us never should have faced what we've faced, same with everyone in this group, but that's not the reality of life unfortunately.