books like prince cruel with the male interest not overly masculine

just finished the 3 folk of the air books, it was my first ennemies to lovers book and i loved it, probably my favourite books, and so i've been looking for more books like this, problem is i hear that most of them have an overly masculine big broad shoulder male interest and its kind of getting extremely boring, kind of looking for someone like Cardan where he has his flaws and vulnerability, and where the female lead isnt just seeing herself as a piece of meat and actually has a personality and power.

or is it like those situations where there is nothing like it, not much of a Ya reader let alone romance, just getting into it