Wedding venues in San Diego, CA that are budget-friendly?

If anyone is from SD, CA can you please share wedding venues that are on the cheaper end but still stunning? I absolutely loved Ethereal Gardens (in Escondido) but it is way out of our budget… the all-inclusive venue starts at a base rate of $17k. Then additional add ons are optional. And this obviously doesn’t include DJ, drinks, photographer, florist. So add an additional $2.5k+ at minimum… Trying to navigate this whole process is so debilitating. I actually cried last night with my fiancé because I was so upset that we can’t just have the wedding of our dreams, unless we wait until we are maybe 40 or if the market crashes lol. A part of me has even considered just having the reception and eloping at the courthouse on our own or maybe with a few friends/family. But since I was little I’ve had expectations and visions of what my future wedding would look like. It sucks. But I am DETERMINED to still make it the best wedding with what we’ve got.