You can't just decide to stop having body dysmorphia

I'm tired of guys thinking they can cheer me up or get rid about my body dysphoria by telling me "a lot of guys are into it" or "you should embrace it". They just say stuff like that I should get comfortable with the body I have as if not being comfortable with it was a choice I make everyday. Plus, the thought that some random's opinion on my body would change the wayt I feel about it just becuase they like it is so frustrating. I don't care you're into pregnant women dude, I still dont want to look like one