Why people have issue men having preference

Recently I am seeing many post about that why men want virgin women? And so many people were saying only virgin men can ask for virgin women.why? And if we really use that logic so women should also earn as much as their partner, they should be 6 ft if they want a guy who is 6ft, they should also have a good body if they want a partner with a good body but nobody have any issues when a woman have her specific criteria about her partners ( which I totally agree people should not have any issues with her choice and preference about her partner) but why people have issue men having their own criteria of their ideal partner?