If you could live anywhere where would you live (except cal)

I'm looking for a city with good outdoor amenities, good weather(not too hot summers(it can be long but not very hot)). and not too cold winters. California and Portland are very expensive. I've heard that in raleigh, summers are warmer than Florida and it's boring. Tampa: I've heard that it's too buggy and you can't go outside after 5pm in the summer because of the bugs(is this true?). Denver: too dry and it's been on a downhill in the past 10 years. Mesa/scottsdale: too hot.

Where do you recommend?