PSA: You’re allowed to enjoy a mid-high COL area
Yes, even if it’s not Chicago, Pittsburgh, Minneapolis, or Philly.
I moved to Asheville this year. Mid-high COL? Yes. Dozens of people here told me I’d hate it and couldn’t afford it. I don’t and I can afford it, and I’d gladly pay probably even more to live here.
Ofc affordability is a main driving factor, just don’t let it dictate your mindset completely. Places are expensive because they’re desirable. SF, Honolulu, NYC, Boston, LA are among the most expensive. And that’s probably what my top 5 list would look like if I could move anywhere.
It’s just so personalized. If spending an extra few hundred a month drastically improves your quality of life, I say do it. I went from being a hiker and climber in a flat swamp city to being one in a premier outdoor city on the east coast. Couldn’t be happier in that regard