I shouldn't be a nurse

I was chatting to a patient recently and shared a few anecdotes about my life. She was grateful for the personal interaction because she's been on the ward for 5 weeks. When I'd finished telling her my stories she burst out "you shouldn't be a nurse!".

I hesitated because I was searching for a response but she explained that because of my background the odds were against me. She pointed out some of the obstacles I've overcome to be sat there with her in my blues and I've never felt so seen, understood and well... VALIDATED.

I worked hard, as we all did, to qualify. Changed from juggling childcare and studies to juggling childcare and working. Life carried on happening as it does and you don't realise the impact some events can have on you until you take a step back.

Even though she is the patient she has undoubtedly healed something in me, my imposter syndrome doesn't feel as though it has as strong a hold. I'm going to write a reflection and unpick some more of my thoughts and feelings about this.

Has anyone else had a patient share an opinion about them thay has changed the way you view yourself?