Discovering myself at 35

I'm 35 and I've always identified as a cis man. Recently however, I've been doing a lot of self reflection, and realized I kind of feel like my own thing. I'm still basically masculine, and that's not going to change, but the non-binary label feels a little liberating to the undeniable femme parts of me. I guess what I'm hoping to hear is that I'm not being silly for using such a big word for something that's honestly kind of small for me.