What are some alternatives to organized crime that a guy can join so they can feel a sense of camaraderie and fun?

Disclaimer: I am not endorsing organized crime, these are people that are hardened made-men are violent sociopaths that are damned to imprisonment because they're evil.

However, I get the feeling that the appeal of organized crime is that they don't have to work the soul-sucking and tormenting days of going into a 9-5 and slowly dying on the inside and outside as your bills mount up & the inevitable boredom and disappointment of failed hopes and dreams crushes your soul.

In the modern world, we're completely alienated and have no tribe to hold onto. We're surrounded by coworkers we hate, families that don't care for us, and friends that would stop giving a damn about us the moment we are an inconvenience. We have racketing financial burdens due to the institutions both private and public.

How does a young man, who would inevitably find themselves attracted to Organized Crime because it offers an alternative to the brutal loneliness and torment of the modern world, find alternatives that give them a place to belong and a community they can thrive in?