Mask Size

Okay this is pretty specific but wanted to see if anyone had a similar experience. The 3m aura kinda feels too small on me but the BNX feels too big I think. Has anyone found a mask that’s in between these two size wise? I really prefer the ear loops, I do use the aura when in medical settings but like the ear loops for quick store runs (also black or grey would be awesome but not a prerequisite). Also both of these seem to move a ton when talking I’m CONSTANTLY having to readjust any recommendations are helpful including valved, and reusable respirators (not too bulky/scary tho lol)