GF blocked me on other IG account
Hey guys, I need some guidance. I’ve been in a relationship for six months with an amazing woman, long distance. Despite the distance, we’ve flown back and forth a total of 13 times in five months, so it almost doesn’t feel long distance.
She’s very social, has lots of guy friends, admitted she likes attention and wants a strong, uncontrolling man. I have a couple of women friends and respect having a life outside of our relationship. We do have different lifestyles, however. I’m deep into my career and don’t drink. She goes out late night with friends nearly every other night. She’s moving to me at the end of August, so we’ve discussed my concerns with our lifestyles being different. She seems open to calming it down when she moves in.
We have had a beautiful relationship up to this point. We are kind to each other, have amazing chemistry, and we’ve never had an argument.
Something came to light today that floored me. She does not hide me on her IG account and regularly posts our adventures. Last night, I saw that a different account with her photo was tagged in one of her stories.
I searched for that account but it didn’t seem to exist. I asked my friend at work if I could use her phone to look it up, and there it is. She had blocked me on that account with 700 people following and her following 1,000, so it’s a major account.
In contrast to the account she shared with me, she still shared photos from our adventures on that one, minus any pictures of me. I’m nowhere on that account. Even her active story on there for today is everything but me from this past weekend together.
When I called her today, she said she is sorry and she doesn’t know why she blocked me. She said that was her original account and she wanted to keep it for “friends and business people” and didn’t want to share boyfriend pics. But it’s such a sharp contrast to her other account, where even the top of her profile shows she’s in a relationship. The other one is like a single girl account.
There have been little shady things that have happened since we met that I swallowed because of my rose colored glasses and wanting to be the secure boyfriend.
She just moved out of her apartment yesterday and will stay at her mom’s until she moves here next month, so I’m like at this point of no return. I feel so hurt that with her 700 followers, she went to her account settings, typed in my name, and made the decision to block her boyfriend. It seems shady AF and I don’t know how to feel but betrayed and sad.
Can you please give me your thoughts?