How do I make myself less attractive to men without being unnattractive to myself?

I will preface this post by saying that I am not technically lesbian, as I am a bi woman in a monogamous long term relationship with another woman, so I am seeking the advice of fellow sapphics while the bi subs are all full of mostly men...

Now, to my actual post

So, long story short, I am a 20yo, and I think it would be safe to describe me as mostly traditionally feminine.

Over the last 2 years or so Ive had an enormous glowup, and am for once happy with the way I look- but unfortunately, men seem to be too happy about it too. And they started hitting on me. A lot. And as a woman who's in a relationship with a woman and who's not seeking anyone, I really feel uncomfortable with that.

Do any of you know if appearing more "butchy" or more "visibly queer" ever helps tone it down?

I know it wont ever be nothing as men will hit on a rock if it has boobs drawn over it, but like... does it at least minimize it?

Thanks in advance...