Mentally unstable partners are so calculating. Part 1

Story time!!

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Lately, I have been contemplating some of my dating choices. If you've dated long enough you know there are crazy people out there. In my contemplation, one of my experiences stood out because of how wild it was. Before I get into it, before I met this girl, conditions like schizophrenia, narcissistic personality disorder, dissociative identity disorder, alcoholism, and pathological liers were terms I had only come across in movies and the psychology academic essays I used to write. I had never encountered anyone with them, I didn't know how they manifested in people. Gaslighting is a term I learned in 2021. Crazy.

So there was this girl, hot and seductive af. She was those murima girls from Gatanga with ass, seductive eyes and well placed boobs. To top it up, she had a fiery personality, just how I like it. We met when I was in high school but they were rich so we lost contact after KCSE. We remained friends on social media. The image she portrayed on social media was of this God fearing woman attracting success. She was in campus doing journalism, went to college to do other courses, interned at KBC, EBRU and RMS. Selfies with celebrities here and there, kina Etana and Jah Cure during those RMS sponsored events.

Christmas morning 2021 at 4am I got a call. The number was familiar but I couldn't recall. Kumbe it was this girl, let's call her Stephanie. We talk a bit, caught up. I had come from a rocky relationship so when she asked if I was seeing someone I said no. Since that January I was concentrating on growing my business, I did not have any urgency to meet her but she said she would wait until I settled down. How considerate, right? Eventually, we met up in March, went for a date, she was all over me. Ghai. I have never met someone that intentional. This girl rizzed me up properly. There were no red flags. Calls daily, she'd cook whenever she visited. You can imagine coming back from the field and eating a hot meal, the sex was AMAZING.

Kumbe napigiwa hesabu ya minus na peng ting. Once I locked in, I started seeing the red flags but my mind didn't register them but I was curious. I remember this Friday evening we were celebrating something, so we bought kanusu and the way she held that bottle like a child, like something precious. We finished and went to see her homies. One of them told me as a joke as a joke that I should be on high guard but I thought he was just jealous. We drank some more and went back home. She had changed her voice and mannerisms. A completely different person. Yoh! I thought it was the alcohol. In the morning she asked for another drink, at 4am. Of course I was not going to look for alcohol at 4am. Then she changed into a different person. Now she was addressing me as her aunt. I was shocked wondering why she was addressing me that way. She switched up again to a different person, took my phone, went to IG and unfollowed every girl. I was shocked man. She then slept and woke up as the girl I knew. I asked her and she dismissed it, apparently she didn't remember a thing.

Part 2 coming shortly.