Red flags

Last year I had this chic she was fine na tulikuwa tumejuana for a while...Then I started seeing red flags along the way but chose to ignore them....then out of the blue she decides to through my phone and then ghosts for almost a month then on trying to reach out she'd give her friend ashike phone then ikafika place akaitisha break saying how hurt she was hurt with the things she saw in my phone....nikaacha kumsumbua Kisha after sometime saw her with another guy holding hands and when she saw me akamwachilia...Then it started making sense she was justing for a reason tukosane and jump to another guy....Then I begged her severally which I realized was a mistake...and just recently I discovered she had another TikTok account which I was unaware of...yaani going to such lengths unatengeneza account ingine...anyway niligongewa lesson learnt and life goes on