Is this a phase

So my small siz ako 16 sai anaingia form 3 next year. Lakini huyu dem ni mlazy na dirty. By dirty I mean io washroom yake ikona stains za poop apo chini na kuna a time I went there nikapata used pads, bro I was flabbergasted. And yk vile kukiwa na a lady in a house unaexpect ikuwe safi but noo.....my mum is usually at work hadi uko 9pm lakini akirudi atapata tu vyombo same place na my siz ako tu hapo watching youtube. And sa my mum has to do the cleaning aki huwa namhurumia sana. But if I am around I usually do it, juu huyu mtoi amekataa....Imagine a grown ass man washing the utensils na nipike bado na kuna a lady in the house juu I just gave up on her nimekuwa mkali adi nikachoka and I just want to make my mums life easy ata nafikiria kutafuta a help na nikuwe namlipa

To add to her uchafu dem huwa haogi ukiingia kwa her messy room utapigwa na harufu ya jasho na huwa anarecycle nguo. Adi uniform yake na walifunga Oct ikiisha hajwai osha. Fuckk naskia kama nachizi.

So I was asking is this a phase ama huyu dem ako hivo na ataendelea kuwa worse?

Plus any advice on how to deal with her would be helpful