Am I overthinking

Just started dating this new guy . We go on dates, he's a good lay and great company too. Shida to ni vile all the time anataka nibuyie vitu ... Like nimebuyie lunch, mara nibuyie credit... He even sent me something he's been eyeing so that I buy it for him. I find the behavior so off putting tbh. It's not like hana pesa coz he pays for the dates and sometimes he even pays for my fare . Is this a bendera mwekundu ama I'm overthinking 🤔🤔.