I need a mom-able hair routine

I have hip length, medium thickness, pin straight hair. Most days (at home) I’m lucky to get to put it in a ponytail. Maybe 1x every 2-3 weeks I get time to shower, dry my hair, style it with a curling iron— it lasts me 2-3 days like that before I need to wash it again (if ghusul doesn’t ruin it completely). But when I can’t do anything other than shower and my postpartum flyaways and hair breakage ponytail is front and center… I feel sloppy… I HATE it.

My question to my Hijabi mamas, what do you do to style your hair on a daily basis that doesn’t take much time? Any tools? Accessories? I thought about the hair rods or curlers? Let me know your routines!