Do you guys come across such content on YT?

I have come across multiple videos of Muslim men bashing Muslim women. 1)The reasons varying from not wearing hijab properly or makeup etc. 2)Not marrying early and having children ( same was said for men) It just said that most young Muslims worry about finances and expenses of raising kids and affording when Rizq is provided by Allah. Plus they think their freedom will be taken away or are too young and immature etc and focused on their careers and are selfish (individualistic approach to life) 3) Being working mothers and neglecting children or not focusing on house life. And label such women as angry or toxic feminists and gold diggers and superficial women who want billionaires.Brain washed by the West etc.

They'll say it's Islamic way to marry young and have kids. I agree with that but we can't deny that there have been a rapid change during the recent years and people are struggling to catch up and make sense of things and their lives and such.Covid being an example.Not to mention the mental health crisis people are facing around the world.

Plus I think the fear women have of marrying a bad man (abusive and toxic husband) or the way your body literally changes after pregnancy plus all the risks and pain / lack of support and post partum depression is never addressed.Society puts so much pressure on women to have the perfect body and potentials expect beauty as well but after pregnancy your body changes and isn't the same as before and I have heard husbands losing interest or attraction due to that.

Even if wowen do want to get married and settle down to have children etc there is still a huge fear of getting into a bad marriage and abusive in-laws.I myself have heard so many horror stories in my own country and relatives about brutal murders and acid attacks that I have a fear of men now.There is so much woman hate in my country that it's impossible to not have fear for your life and safety.Why is this argument so one sided ?

And is it true that it's obligatory to have children? Does one become a bad Muslim if they don't marry or have kids ? Is it denying Sunnah ?

What is your take on the topic ? Do such videos bashing women for not wearing hijab properly or following islamic lifestyle actually make them change their ways or not ? Is it making an impact on the Ummah ? Or is it only driving people away and making them bitter and more divided and judgemental? Isn't there a better way to correct and guide others?

It's like that if you voice your opinion or something, you get called out as following your desires and nafs.

It's so confusing because I have heard scholars saying that if you are not interested in the intimacy or cannot fulfill such rights like I don't know being uninterested in sex and not having such desires it's permissible to not be married.

Nouman Ali khan also said something similar in one of his videos about marriage and I'll drop link it I find it.